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7 ways you’re unknowingly hurting your Lover

 7 ways you’re unknowingly hurting your Lover.  You could be hurting them and not even know it. Have you found your person here 7 things you can do that are hurtful 1. Criticism This can be verbal or nonverbal. If you find yourself frequently getting on their is case about not folding the laundry the right way, consider other ways to approach them. Praise their efforts first. You could say, "Thank you for folding the laundry. I appreciate that you took the time to do this. Can I show you how to fold the towels so they all fit in the cabinet?" If they have done something different from what they said they would do, consider reasons this might have happened. If they arrived home later than expected, maybe got stuck in traffic. Maybe  stopped at the gas station. Pledge to approach questions and concerns with kindness rather than criticism. 2. Not making time for them  If you find that you are drifting apart, analyze how much quality time you're spending together. When y...

Take a picture no filter

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In the age of Snapchat Instagram  Don't forget to take a picture of yourself no filter  Your flaws are beautiful and the best thing to wear is a smile. Filters hide the dimples 🙂  Hope you have a blessed day

What pictures would you put in a Collage?

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  If I were to make a collage of my life in 6 pictures I am delighted to have so many photos of captured moments . Here are 6 of my favorite photos . My children are my world lifes joy and happiness and my Friends my Strength. 

Friendsgiving

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  This year I was truly grateful on Thanksgiving to spend it with my friends. In the past 10 years I have lost my Mother and her side of the family. I was adopted and raised in the United States. I married and had started a family of my own. I am also divorced so sharing holidays with my Son father is tradition. It is nice to have my friends to celebrate all the things we are thankful for to gather and laugh and feel truly accepted. This year I know several people who celebrated this thanksgiving without family or friend. Covid taught us how important daily connection is with our loved ones even if it cannot be in person.  If you do not have someone to reach out to on Thanksgiving I think there should be pages where strangers can gather and celebrate in their area.  

Top Ten Favorite Foods

 I am a Filipino American , but I am highly allergic to shellfish. I was raised in the United States where you can get just about anything your taste pallet desires . I was a highly picky child . They say your taste changes every seven years . I am 43 and  here are my 10 ten foods. 1. Chow Mei Fun- This is a asain dish wioth seasoned noodles . Meat and Veggies can be added . I prefer Singapore Chowmei Fun because it has a hint of curry  and hot peppers that makes its spicy and delightful.  2. Greek Lamb Kabobs with orzo pasta. 3. Steak any cut mediuim to medium well.  4. Quiche- This is a pastry made with a blend of eggs spices cheeses and which ever verggies and meats desired. 5.Pizza any kind except anchovies 6. Stuffed Green Peppers .  7. Lemon Pepper Chicken ( roasted in the oven ) 8. Tacos I prefer hardshell . 9. Katsu- This is a japanese panko crusted chicken. 10. Ice crean. My favorites are Mint Chocolate Chip and Rocky Road