Valentine's with no Valentine

 This is the first year I did not spend Valentine's with a boyfriend/husband Significant other. True to form I worked dressed up ate heart shaped candy and had a date. My date was with a best friend and her two adorable children . I felt sad at first when I was at the store on valentine's eve and saw all the guys buying flowers and stuffed animals , but I have had 44 years of flowers romance and I love yous.  I wish the same men that pledge to love me forever , were genuine and the reminders of how swept off my feet is overshadowed by the way they turned out to be manipulative and selfish and not at all Prince Charming. But I don't even think it's their fault they can't love me the way I deserve with actions that mean more than 1000 Valentine's gifts and cards. My advice to any Man who  wants to give his one , The one the best gift , Speak passion into her listen to her respect her make time for her .

Women are simple we want to love and be loved. We want to feel safe and not insecure.  I don't think there has to be no disagreements and no communication issues. It's how you handle conflict , How you resolve issues and tough spots and eachother insecurities. .So you champion your partner. Do you really try everyday to be better and not take them for granted. 

I was taken for granted mistreated hurt.

I won't ever let that happen again. if Valentine's finds me alone next year or for next few years. It's ok I know my worth. That realization made this the best Valentine's ever.